When my son was a teenager, he didn’t like to fight. When his uncles attempted to teach him, I was not cooperative. I refused to allow them to change his nature. He still does not like to fight.
During his recent second inauguration, I listened as some of the people commented on President Barack Obama’s lack of socialness. Many of them were hoping that in this second term, he would learn to welcome members of Congress to the White House and take the opportunity to socialize with them. These people seemed to think that it was his responsibility to make friends with them.
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