I don’t remember the first Christmas dinner I cooked, and that’s probably best, but I do remember a turkey that wasn’t done and some oyster dressing that was never spoke of again.
And, I do remember my mother, Lucille Benson’s, no-bake fruit cake. She created the recipe and made it with graham crackers, orange juice, large chunks of nuts and candied fruit. To this day it’s in our family’s “best” category, and its something I’ve never been able to replicate to my satisfaction.
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