Rickey Christian is living the dream his best friend Virgil Taylor desperately wanted to have. Christian is a 1996 graduate of Smith-Cotton High School.
“I had a childhood best friend of mine whose dream was to be a Navy sailor. It wasn’t my dream — at all. I was never thinking about going into the military,” Christian said. For years, Taylor tried to convince him to join too. A few days before Taylor was supposed to leave for basic training, Christian threw him a going-away party. Taylor continued to bug him.
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