(NAPSI)—If you’re ever among the estimated 65 million Americans caring for loved ones, a look at one famous family’s experience may be useful to you.
Joan Lunden, former host of “Good Morning America,” wife, mother of seven and caregiver to her mother, Gladyce, was faced with the challenge of finding the right senior living community for her mom. Lunden found herself completely unprepared for what was ahead.
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