Valentine’s Day always seemed special for me, but I don’t really know why.
In my early years, being a very shy kid, I think it was being able to send a love note to a special girl. Sending a written note with “be my valentine” on it avoided being rejected (within breathing range) for my acknowledgment of feelings. I never gave much thought to its origin, it was just a special day when everybody could express their thoughts. I looked upon it as if two people were holding a pair of dice and when tossed on the table they came up with the same numbers — bingo, maybe this is a good omen.
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