In the writing trade, articles in which the author relates his and his companion’s experiences are known as “me and Joe stories.” In the interest of literal accuracy, this is not a me and Joe story. It’s a me and Joan story.
Amber and I and Joan and Al Hunter have been the best of friends for at least two decades. The four of us get together several times a year to eat home-cooked meals, to play cribbage and to process venison. We even took a week-long vacation in Canada together a number of years ago.
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